Dating a married person is taboo, but many people may wonder what leads to a person being in a relationship with a married man. Here is how it happend to Esther.
Esther has some issues with relationships and the trend seems to be that she dates men who are in some way unavailable. Whether they live abroad or in other relationships, Esther picks men who are only 1/2 way commited. This situation usually causes her to be 'The Other Woman', but by now Esther is used to this so that is how she ended up dating a married guy.
She met him at one of her several new jobs. Actually, she met him before she started working at a bar acouple of weeks prior. Funny thing is that when she asked to bum a ciggarette from him, he read her palm as a joke and said that soon they would be close together. Well, he actually did predict the future because a couple of weeks later they were working in the same office.
The first couple of days on the job, Esther did not recognize him. Afterall, she was very drunk the day they met. However, she did notice him staring at her and eventually other coworkers started to mention that she already knew someone at the office. After a couple of weeks, he finally introduced hiself to her and reminded her of their brief encounter at the bar. He was psychic and it was a sign that they were meant to be, so they hit it off immidiatley!
After a while of getting to know each other, they became drinking buddies. It was not apparent that he was married because he went out a lot, got very drunk, and flirted with lots of girls, but eventually he revealed that he was married.
If you have been reading this blog, at this point it should be apparent that Esther has low standards for morality, so let say that she did not care if he was married or not. She like flirting with him and he was very aggressive about hitting on her and made it obvious tha he wanted to be more than friends.
One day while drinking, he kissed her and the physical relationship started. The attraction was very strong, but their physical attraction was only kissing and making out for about 6 months. Even though they both wanted more, he was strict in not corssing the sual line because he was married.
A couple of months later he would get divorced. Ironically, they got divorced because he found his wife cheating on him with another man!
